I've had four different therapists and I can honestly say that I don't think therapy is a good way to treat people who are legitimately mentally ill. I'm putting this out there to show you that not all therapists are the same, that there's such thing as an extremely positive therapy experience. A patient with an extremely unusual addiction. She's paid to care and it doesnt feel like I'm talking to a real person. I hate talking to her because she doesn't care. ( Log Out /  I hate you, I love you, I hate that I love you. They sit down in my gut and weigh on me. A 'millennial therapist' explains why young people hate their jobs―and what to do about it Published Mon, Jul 29 2019 9:52 AM EDT Updated Tue, Jul … Home » Ask the Therapist » My Mom & I Hate Each Other. At their mercy. Ever thought 'I hate my husband'? I'm done. We all know how badly I take it when she goes away. I've seen more therapists than I can count. After spending an entire decade in therapy of all kinds, testing with various therapists and psychiatrists, documenting my own life and conditions and staying permanently informed about therapeutic methods, I’ve put together a list of 20 most common things a therapist should never do in relation to their client. What happened to you, happened TO you, not by you. She is very bright, pleasant, and lively. Pages: 1 2 All. My therapist was sort of ok until she found out I was bullied in school, then proceeded, on the visible verge of both tears and bursting out in anger (Her face was red as a tomato), to explain how she was a bully in school, then her son got bullied, so she became a therapist to help those who were bullied. Be honest with yourself about hating life. Write down your goals. I hated my therapist too. It makes me angry with myself for not being able to just act like an adult. Reason to go on. A few things have prompted me to write about this again. My therapist told me she wasn’t much of a question asker and I basically said “too bad, so sad” (but you know, with other words). I just want one fucking friend in the world who will give a shit about my life. 4. Change ), You are commenting using your Twitter account. I feel completely fucking helpless. What are your experiences with therapy? You're not alone. Everywhere you read about psychotherapy, there’s this message that no emotion or thought is unwelcome in the therapeutic process. Deal with my shit on my own like everyone else does. hi im 13 and i have clinical depression ( it runs in my family ) anyway i cut my wrist very badly and had to get surgery to reconect nerves or whatever and now i have to see a therapist. Great article , really answered a lot of the key questions and also gave great insight into the future of performance and rehab which is where I see a lot of the athletes going. I'm a fucking loser and was always destined to be one. Great article , really answered a lot of the key questions and also gave great insight into the future of performance and rehab which is where I see a lot of the athletes going. My Life is Over; What To Do If You Hate Your Life; How to Not Hate Your Life (27 Tips) 1. I felt proud of my apparent accomplishments but frustrated with the disagreement and the prospect of having to hunt for a new therapist. It didn’t make me feel secure. I have scars but, I tell people it was from my cat. I really want to help her, and explain we’ll only deal with what she wants to deal with, and we’ll stop the therapy at any moment if she wants to. Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. I must drive her nuts. I said I would be devastated if she did that to me. Not quite the same, as I’m not in love with her – but there are parallels. but i'm so pissed at her cuz she won't talk to me. Those intense hours of talking and listening, being close and being heard. I have been in therapy for 10 years now. ( Log Out /  A competent therapist can help you recognize and have compassion for the forces at work in your self-directed misgivings. I have a pretty difficult relationship with both my parents, but especially my father, who for my entire life has had a romantic relationship with another woman besides my mom. I can't stand myself today, or my therapist. *Update: I did end up switching to a much better therapist. I've in and out of therapy since I was forced to go as a kid and again when I was in the military. To put it bluntly, the therapeutic alliance is in itself a bit of a head fuck. You get this awful yet magnetic sense of being under their power. All those minutes are absolutely real. You're not alone. But not anymore. 6 Reasons Why I Hate My Therapist. THANK YOU FOR THIS. That was back in September, and I’m still none the wiser. Only one of my friends know but, I told her that I don’t hurt myself anymore,but I do. I haven’t read the lengthy responses to this, but I must say this post really peaked my anxiety regarding my therapist. I despise relying on her so much. She knows I have this blog and she reiterated that it is my space in which to write anything I want to, be that good or bad. Do I need a new one? Congratulations! My therapist was sort of ok until she found out I was bullied in school, then proceeded, on the visible verge of both tears and bursting out in anger (Her face was red as a tomato), to explain how she was a bully in school, then her son got bullied, so she became a therapist to help those who were bullied. I am a psychotherapist — specifically, a trauma therapist — in New York City. Ugh. But for those of us who depend on our therapist, it is so much more than that. A man who intentionally infected strangers with HIV. I ended up finding a healing community on Reddit where I wasn't alone in my loss. The first time I pulled my car up to a therapist’s office, I had no idea what the experience would be like. Thank your moms for being able to communicate much of the problem. Why I Walked Away From My Career As A Physical Therapist. I wanted to know that she isn’t going anywhere anytime soon, and that’s not what she said. “These are my confessions. My specializations as a therapist have always followed my personal life. by Erie092807 » Mon Jun 18, 2012 5:41 pm . Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or tablets. A therapist has started an anonymous blog, Therapist Confessions, to share the truth about her clients, her most awkward work-related encounters, and her own struggles with mental health. I’m concerned she is harboring negativity towards me because 3 months ago she recommended I take a 6 month break from therapy. To be quite honest, a lot of that has to do with how hideous I … The information provided by What Your Therapist Really Thinks is for entertainment and educational purposes only, and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. While I am incredibly fond of J, and hugely grateful for her support, I do get these sudden knee-jerk feelings of negativity about her too. That’s a bit like the emotions that my relationship with J stirs up in me. It would annoy me to read that. We are not in this together. She can reassure me relentlessly and I will still be terrified of her leaving me. There’s always something to dislike about a person if you look hard enough. So YES my mother HATE me and my brother! This is true. And it is mostly about how my relationship with J makes me feel. I’m an OCD Therapist With OCD. Change ), You are commenting using your Google account. If you are a lay person, these are for you too. Start reading every day. The highly anticipated sequel to I'm a Therapist, and My Patient is Going to be the Next School Shooter I've counseled the most chilling criminals... A young inmate who fell in love with a pedophile.